Let’s stop looking for a one-size-fits-all way do church. And stop insisting on it for others.
After all, what we call “the early church” were really “the early churches.” Corinth, Jerusalem, Ephesus and Antioch were about as different from each other as the churches we have today.
Sure, sometimes they sinned and made theological errors, which needed to be corrected. But even when they were doing church right, each New Testament congregation did church their own way.
There are definitely some wrong ways to do church. But if the way you’re doing church honors God and works for you, the people you’re serving and the community you’re reaching, keep doing it. If not, try something else until you discover what works.